A quick update before Blake's e-mail
Hi everyone,
It was mentioned in a past letter that Blake was having a little health issue! All is well and He is FINE!!! Blake told "Bonnie" who has become a dear friend to send a note to me (his mom) and in his words he said, "Tell her I'm fine, I'm good. It was pretty fun, actually." (hmm, not sure I'd ever call that procedure fun!) He said there is nothing wrong. He just has "a small anal fissure just inside, near the outside, and that is causing the bleeding." Sorry for the details, but since you already new that he was having issues, I just wanted you to know that he is well! And now I can stop worrying!
Thanks for all your prayers!
Kelly (Blake's mom)
Dear family and friends!
I have so much to say. I think this letter could be the longest there has ever been, but I don't have time to. So here we go! FIRST! I got transferred for the first time in my life! What a shocker. I was in the same area for six months and I loved it, still miss it but change is good. Time to grow. I am in the Oquirrh Temple zone and serving in the West Jordan Park and Prairie Stakes. My companion is Elder Lundwall from Houston Texas. Elder Lundwall has been out for ten months. He is 6'6" and looks way taller. He is a giant. His voice is so deep it shakes the floor when he speaks. This is also my first time serving without a vehicle! How spoiled, I know. So we are on bikes. E. Lundwall has been here for only one transfer and him and his previous companion did not bike, didn't have them. So that was the first change we made. Second day in we got mine all tuned up, got myself a helmet and got his back from the shop. We are going to work effectively.
So I am a district leader and in my district there are five other full time Elders, two full time Sisters and two senior couples. It's a big district! I am way excited. There is so much more work involved than I thought there was. Just the call ins at night is a alot of work by itself. They want me to chat with them for like five minutes every night and see how was there day. What they could have done better, give them suggestions any way I can. Then call in at 9:30 to my zone leaders and give them an update of my day and the districts. I am going to crack some of these Elders into shape, I can't handle disobedience, the sisters are pretty good though. So there is the call ins, the weekly training for two hours I'm in charge of! Exchanges with every missionary in the district twice a transfer. An exchange is a over night the whole deal. Personal study, companion study, finding, teaching, planning at night then talk about the exchange and the good and the bad, how we can improve. I have had one exchange in my life so far! My last DL didn't do them that much. So yes even with the sisters! Haha just kidding, don't worry Linds. Then there are the baptismal interviews! The greatest part I think. I have already had three all last Friday. A 60 year old man who has been attending church for four years, a 19 year old girl and a 11 year old boy. So I've had all ages already and man they can be really spiritual. It's all about making it comfortable so they WANT to share their testimony with you. So that's the main things of District Leader, other small things like reporting numbers weekly. I get to go to a DL and ZL training on Sept 9th! Can't wait!
On Saturday I had a baptism in my old area! I loved going back, like a little vacation from the stress here. It was Jack Owen and his younger sister Claire (9 and 8 years old). We were teaching them forever! Since my first couple weeks in the mission. I baptized them both and then confirmed them both! It was quite the experience. I was a little nervous of doing the confirmation for the first time but I decided to just go in there and do them both with nothing in my mind as to what to say. It was cool to see the things that just flow out of your mouth! Man I love serving! They are some cute kids though, sadly the pictures won't be on the big batch you get from Ryan Ackroyd. He has alot though, basically everyone I was close to in my old area.
So here's the part I could go on for hours but I must wrap this up in a few minutes here. This area has NO TRUST. Zero trust with the members. I looked in the area book and it has a long line of Elders who have been way disobedient. I'm not saying I don't like them, some of them I'm sure will be good friends of mine even after the mission but I believe some Elders don't understand what their disobedience does to future missionaries. A couple of the main things that have happened here recently. Elder got in a vocal fight with a Stake President. Another Elder got in a fist fight with a 14 year old kid who was taking the lessons from them! I mean just simple things like us not being given keys to the building. The WML could care less about us, I feel. The members don't like scheduling dinners because the Elders never showed up. I mean these are the things that are.... visible? But there are some many other consequences that you cant... see? For example all the relationships with what they call "investigators" are completely the wrong kind of relationship. Like a bro relationship, like come over here and "hang out". I don't get what the point of this is. Are we going to convince people the church is a cool thing to join, so get baptized. Nope. It's not even between us and them, between them and God.
Ahh I could go on forever and give examples of several situations where we have already started to patch things up. I mean we went to a LA (less active) couples house who we had scheduled for lunch on Saturday. They were used to the Elders coming over, making food with them then watching there weekly episode of "Glee". I was ticked when I found out. The sister was putting in the DVD when I asked her not to and had to explain to her why we can't. Eventually they saw it through my eyes so instead we had a 20 minute conversation about the gospel, shared scriptures and started a plan to get them sealed in the temple. We got out of the house in a hour and so we were able to keep our lunch to the time given and continue on with our work! We left there with the proper relationship and house filled with the spirit.
This is just one situation. There are alot similar stories some worse. I mean the area books were completely empty! No record of anyone they are teaching or who they could potentially be teaching. We took 6 hours on Friday to fix that problem and get us organized. The best thing is Elder Lundwall is completely down with being 100% obedient. Why not! He has been before but man I'm so glad I was trained being obedient, it would have been so much harder to change. I don't know if I can get the point across of how important it is. Simple things like waking up at 6:30! Doing the studies, going to bed on time. So it will take some time but patch things up but they will be done and I'm excited for the challenge.
I'm pretty excited to serve with E. Lundwall. He has had alot of companions and quite a few who were pretty rude. There was a point this week where we were biking and I just had this feeling I'm going to love him. Each day I continue to grow closer to him. We are going to have some good experiences together. But I must go, please take care and keep the faith!
Elder Pizzey.